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The author of this book just messaged me to say:
"There's a controversial question in the world of prostitution. Do you pay the prostitute first or do you pay her after you've had sex?
In my book I tell Johns to pay after they have sex with the prostitute. A John has everything to lose by giving up the money first."
I have never heard of paying afterwards. In my experience you have to pay up front or you don't get service.
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i've only paid once after a punt, i think that was only because i knew one of the ladies that ran the place
it's time to play the game
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(01-24-2012, 12:08 PM)Jay K Wrote: (01-24-2012, 11:50 AM)triple h Wrote: i've only paid once after a punt, i think that was only because i knew one of the ladies that ran the place
If you become a regular of a girl as well I can understand the rules relaxing slightly...but I still reckon most escorts want the money up front. They never forget getting ripped off.
completely agree with you jay, i didn't get a chance to pay first as the lady just ravaged me
it's time to play the game
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In my book I say it's your business they want. You can show them the money, but you don't have to pay them first. All professional services take the money after service has been rendered. If a taxi cab, barber, and a restaurant take payments after service, why shouldn't a prostitute? I understand some cases such as going to a brothel like the ones I've been to in Amsterdam. But go to Tijuana or another third world country and if you pay first your bound to get ripped off at some point. Even when I dealt with hookers in America, I was left hanging, literally. Or if you pay first they could try to get you for extra and give you less time. That is why I always pay after I've finished.
If a client does not pay after sex, a prostitute could tell the authorities she was raped or in countries where prostitution is legal she could get the authorities on him for non-payment. A John does not want any problem with the police over a woman. I know I sure don't. That is why I keep things on the up and up. As a seasoned John I've given the money first and did not get service. So I tell them up front that I pay after we've finish. And they can either take it or leave it. I let them know I was ripped off before and it's just the way I do business. Some understand and agree to it, others refuse it. Either way I'm the one holding the money and it's my business they want. And that is the way I tell Johns to think.
They want your business. You have the money and the pussy is plenty. Don't fall looks or anything else. A hot hooker will agree with receiving payment after sex. I wouldn't be saying this if it weren't true. In Tijuana I do this all the time. In Thailand I got the service first and then paid. A good hooker always takes payment after she's given service. Remember that and you will decrease your chances of getting ripped off.
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Obviously USA is VERY different from UK.
