bad experiance

[philly]

i have had a weekend from hell so please do not laugh at my story and learn from my mistakes
so i made a booking with 2 girls from the other site 1 from sheffield and 1 from london who have never met before as i contacted them seperate.
so after getting to know them well over a month, swapping numbers. getting calls from them, txts, skypes, emails. i felt at ease and comfy with both of them. they got to understand my trust issues, which is why i see working girls. they even got to understand my shyness and awkwardsness when it comes to handing iver the "magic" envolope.
this is where it all went wrong for me.
they both convinced me to pay in full upfront so it would feel more 'real'
erm great i thought as its exactly what i was after.
how wrong could i be.
onthe night before, holly from sheffield canx due to not being bothered about meeting up but could change to a 1on1 meet. fine ok i thought.
i informed mel from london about this, and she canx as she wanted a threesome so could rearrange and find someone else. hmmmm
im not liking any of this at this point as both refused to refund me.
so this morning i try and get in touch with holly, to find out she has blocked my calls, txts, emails and skype. so that £750 gone
i try to get intouch with mel, who asks me to never contact her again. so thats £800 gone

the other site rufuse to get involved, so have been left with leaving negative feedback, field reports and sharing my story to the world to let them learn from my mistakes, as i have no way of getting the money back
if anyone knows of if i can, please please let me know and i will be forever in your debt

[Real Punter]

NOTE: you can mention adultwork on this site, and link to the profiles, but please do not post real names (we have edited them out).

Sorry to hear of your bad experiencxe.

[philly]

since the time of this post, the girl from london was the trouble maker. she has agreed to pay back £75 a month or more if she can afford it. being a single mum in london, i can accept that. as long as it happens
the 1 from sheffield was not keen on the other 1 so didnt want to meet knowing i was still talking to the other and is meeting tomorrow night and wants to meet up more
time will tell but ill never pay up front again
i have removed the ladies link, as im not a complete arse, just beware

[Real Punter]

Glad you have sorted this out.

Would you like the post removed then? We can delete it.

[philly]

i have removed the names but i reckon it would be better if people learn from my mistake
dont get sucked in

[coventrypunter]

sorry to hear of this

remember rule 1. dont part with your cash until you are in the bedroom. Sad but true.

[Jay K]

dont part with your cash until you are in the bedroom. Sad but true.

I do know of several independent escorts who do get paid upfront for overnights, but usually it is with regulars. If you get to know the escort I think you can trust her in this respect. Although I have to admit i have never done it.

[philly]

here is the update
the lady from london has started paying me back. fair play to her
the lady from sheffielfd http://www.adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp...arch%2Easp
we arranged to meet, then she cancelled claiming to be unwell. so we kept talking, phone calls, skypes, and txts. that she always started.
after setting a 3rd date, she cancelled again. i got fed up with this, and asked for a refund. she then claimed i had all the calls, skypes, and texts so the fee will cover her time for this. so no i am not getting the money back, that i had paid for the meet.
again, she has blocked every way of getting hold of her. that was a week ago, and i have not heard anything

i am now giving up being a punter after all of this

[bigsi1978]

here is the update
the lady from london has started paying me back. fair play to her
the lady from sheffielfd http://www.adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp...arch%2Easp
we arranged to meet, then she cancelled claiming to be unwell. so we kept talking, phone calls, skypes, and txts. that she always started.
after setting a 3rd date, she cancelled again. i got fed up with this, and asked for a refund. she then claimed i had all the calls, skypes, and texts so the fee will cover her time for this. so no i am not getting the money back, that i had paid for the meet.
again, she has blocked every way of getting hold of her. that was a week ago, and i have not heard anything

i am now giving up being a punter after all of this

Gutted for ya i'm really sorry you got shafted and not in a good way